Our society is way too judgmental when men's only groups gather. Men's only groups have been disparaged as clownish, considered suspicious and dangerous...ie the masons, frats, Mankind Project, AA and all sorts of stuff. (I belong to F3 Nation, Mankind Project AA).

having said that, knowing the roster of men that attend (or got invited) to the Bohemian Group are not the types I'd ever hang with and would even venture to say are not a group of men that have yours or my best interest in mind.

Weird is fine with me too.... I’m not sure what "totally normal means." If the men held each others penises to pee I'd be on board with you, if they ritualized peeing I'd be on board with you, if group peeing was on their agenda I'd be on board with you....but getting drunk and peeing on a tree happens at every high school keg party, street bash, boy scout gatherings and guys tromp in the woods.

The guy should focus more on whose there, why they are there and the goals of the group not on drunken shenanigans they do.

peace and keep writing your great articles,,,,I learn a lot from them