Ven D. iagram
1 min readMay 15, 2022

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White people where I live in Texas have coded language and gestures as well. It's not for survival rather as a marker to indicate membership in their socio/political-economic group.

I was never cognizant of it until living overseas for years then returning...it was glaringly evident.

Men: a back slap + holding the person shoulder (no hugging) ...joking about UT or Texas A&M football.

Asking about son's and daughter's progress through above mentioned schools or graduate school....and the excellent post grad job opportunities.

Discussion and joking about recent hunting trip + hunting rifle talk. Questions about ski or summer vacations in colorado.

Church talk: Where do you worship these days? (everyone is Christian/protestant)

Talk of the economy....silent disapproving headshaking If there's democratic president regardess if economy is good or not). Smiles and positive nods if the president is Republican.

I grew up in this circle and was around it until I couldn't stand it anymore...and went my own way.

All groups/sub groups have their coded language/gesturing whether they realize it or not. The article about was pretty good....learned something from it. peace

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Ven D. iagram
Ven D. iagram

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Inner city high school ESL teacher serving newcomer refugees/immigrants from all over this spaceship. My students give me the real scoop on world events…no spin

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